Active listening

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Active listening is a skill that can be acquired and developed with practice.  However, active listening can be difficult to master and will, therefore, take time and patience to develop.

'Active listening' means, as its name suggests, actively listening.
Active listening involves listening with all senses.  
Listening is the most fundamental component of interpersonal communication skills.  

Listening is not something that just happens (that is hearing), listening is an active process in which a conscious decision is made to listen to and understand the messages of the speaker.  Active listening is also about patience - pauses and short periods of silence should be accepted. 
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Active listening not only means focusing fully on the speaker but also actively showing verbal and non-verbal signs of listening. 

Generally speakers want listeners to demonstrate ‘active listening’ by responding appropriately to what they are saying. Appropriate responses to listening can be both verbal and non-verbal: